Girls, when they’re in love, are pretty romantic and sweet. Really, they want to do anything and everything to make their boyfriend happy. But I know that many girls are always in a quandary about how to make their boyfriend happy. Boys may think we are complex, but rest assured that girls think the same way about boys. Unlike girls, who are easily satisfied with flowers and chocolate, men are quite unpredictable. Here are some of the romantic things you can do for your boyfriend that will surely make him love you more and more.
Most women are lost when they try to think of creative things that they can do for their boyfriends that will surprise them and make them feel special and loved. If you are indeed one of these lost ladies, I can tell you that this article is definitely for you.
I have interviewed quite a few of the male species about things that they found romantic and that can really melt their hearts. What I did not expect, however, is the fact that most boys are also quite sentimental. In fact, behind their tough and masculine appearance, they are more sentimental than women. They may radiate male glory and be male chauvinists, but deep inside they still have the hearts of the little boy they once were. With this boyish heart, you can please them in a simple and cute way.
24 Romantic Things To Do For Your Boyfriend
1. Support his dreams and desires.
Men want a woman who can understand what they want and what their ambitions are. Have you ever heard this quote: “Behind every successful man is a woman”? In this sense, it is definitely true. A man is more inspired to achieve a certain goal when he knows that there is a woman watching him and supporting him all the way.
2. Keep him in close proximity.
This does not mean that you should be with your boyfriend all the time, but rather that you should have close physical contact whenever you are together. Men are the sensitive type and they want to be touched the majority of the time. You can hold his hand when walking, put your hand on his lap when sitting, or even a simple tap on his shoulder is enough.
3. Cook for him.
The best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, and it will be a romantic gesture if you cook for him personally. Prepare his favorite dish for dinner, or even try a new dish that you think he will enjoy. It can be a new food experiment that is entirely your own. If he likes it, he will definitely want more, and this recipe is yours alone, so no one but you can cook it for him.
4. Plan a day trip for the two of you.
Yes, just a day trip to a resort or somewhere outside the city. One day is enough to connect and relax. Talk about anything under the sun. Talk about recent events that have occurred throughout the week. Talk about your dreams. Talk about his achievements. Talk about your relationship. Just talk and make the best of the day.
5. Take him to extreme adventures.
Men want challenges and what more can you do than take your boyfriend on adventures like zipper lining, bungee jumping, scuba diving, and many others that will surely excite him? Experiencing an extreme adventure is also an advantage for the girl because studies have shown that the hormones responsible for a woman’s sex appeal increase when she is scared. In any case, these activities will give you an adrenaline rush that will make you more attractive to your man.
6. Secure tickets to an event he really wants to go to.
Be it a concert or a football match, get tickets for both of you. This will make him feel special because you have gone to great lengths to get him those tickets. He will certainly be happy to bond with you about the event and it can generate topics you can talk about in the future.
7. Praise him.
There is nothing better than to hear your wife praise you in what you do. Whatever it is, from looking good in a simple shirt to completing that big business proposal, praise him. Praise usually strengthens a man’s ego and makes him feel more important and proud of himself in a good way.
8. Wear his favorite scent every time you are together.
Believe me, this is only a simple act, but men find it romantic. Their sense of smell is as good as women’s. So when you wear your favorite scent, you let them know that you want to please them. If you wear a certain scent, they will also remember you more often if they smell the scent somewhere else. My boyfriend still remembers the smell of his ex-girlfriend, even after they broke up. So this step is not only romantic but will also leave traces in your boyfriend’s heart.
9. Look into his eyes.
Definitely eye contact! When you talk to him and explain how important and special he is to you, make sure you maintain eye contact. This shows him your sincerity and gives him the feeling of security that you belong to him.
10. Sing to him.
Seriously, many men I know ask their girlfriends to sing for them, even if their girlfriends can’t sing a tune. This may be quite awkward if you are not a singer, but it will definitely cheer your husband up, and he will appreciate the one song you sang and dedicated to him.
11. Do DIY and personalize gifts.
If you put effort, thought, and time into something you give your boyfriend, he will realize that you are really into him. Who would not appreciate a gift made with your bare hands and with so much love and time? Individual gift ideas and home improvement items are usually great gifts and are considered one of the most special gifts boys can ever receive.
12. Put love notes in their pockets or bags when they are not looking.
Boys tend to do this to their girlfriends, but why can’t we do the same for them? When they find love letters that are meant for them, their hearts will surely have that joyful and exciting rhythm.
13. Let him sleep in your lap.
As tall and grown-up as they are, they sometimes like to be treated like children. Let your boyfriend sleep on your lap while you stroke his hair. This not only promotes intimacy but also provides the closeness I was talking about earlier.
14. Stand up for your man.
There are really times when people belittle men and give them low self-esteem. Be there for him. Stand up for him, and even if he feels bad about it, your emotional and moral support will be his source of strength. I’ve seen my boyfriend cry several times, and being there at his weakest point will mean everything to him. Make him understand that you still believe in him, this will not only strengthen and encourage him but also make him grateful for your presence and wisdom.
15. Tease him.
Tease him to the point of anger and suddenly kiss him when he starts to get angry. This really works. Men are used to teasing women, but they can’t handle it when it’s them who are teased, which makes it even more fun. Your boyfriend’s comments are invaluable when he’s angry and irritable, much more so when you suddenly kiss him to relieve the tension.
16. When in public, pay attention only to him.
Men are territorial, but they can sometimes have low self-esteem. Since you’re your boyfriend’s girlfriend, he can be quite possessive. In any case, if he catches you looking or staring at another boy, he might think he’s not good enough for you. Then he’ll feel inferior, and you don’t want that to happen. So you should protect his feelings by showing that you only have eyes for him.
17. Surprise him with a breakfast in bed.
A great morning wake-up call can include the smell of fresh pancakes and the aroma of coffee to tempt his senses. Breakfast may not need to be elaborately prepared; simple dishes are sufficient as long as the thought of love is present.
18. Offer a massage.
Men love massages! Offer him a great massage after a hard day at work to relax his body and loosen up his tense muscles. You will never know, this can lead somewhere else. But if you don’t live together, try giving him a gift certificate for a spa massage treatment. He will certainly thank you for being so attentive and knowing that he needs to relax.
19. Notice his favorite team.
Whatever sport your friend plays, he certainly has his favorite team that he never misses. Women like us tend to get bored when our friends talk tirelessly about fouls, misses, shots, kicks, mistakes, and whatever else is going on in the sports field. But we should remember that they listen to us patiently when we talk about make-up and the new fashion trends. So pay attention to his favorite team. Get to know the people he’s interested in, and this will definitely be a good moment of rapprochement for both of you. You’ll never know, you might even get a new interest out of it.
20. Play his favorite video game with him.
Most of the time, our boyfriends love video games as much as they love us… or maybe you can add or subtract a degree. You regularly wait on the sofa until he finishes the race or kills as many zombies as he can, but remember that this is his playing time. No matter how old boys are, they should spend their personal time with their equipment and whatever it is they like to do. Instead of getting angry because he doesn’t care about you, learn the game and play it with him. Trust me, you’ll melt his heart with this gesture.
21. Organize a night out with his friends.
Yes, you can organize an evening with his friends, but only the male ones. Call it a boy bonding, which does not include you. Usually, girlfriends tend to use up most of their boyfriend’s time, which makes their boyfriend’s social life less entertaining. Even if your friend doesn’t say it, he misses his buds too. So you’d better organize a boy trip for them, and if you’re too busy to organize it, just let him go out with his best buddies for a night.
22. Record a sweet message on his phone.
It may be tacky and corny, but it will affect your boyfriend’s day. If he finds your recorded message, he will miss you immediately and would like to hear it from you in person.
23. Be affectionate all the time.
Boyfriends need our affection. He pursued you because he wants to be closer to you and get to know you better. Affection is very important in a relationship because it also determines compatibility, so always be loving.
25. Say I love you.
This is certainly the most romantic thing you can ever say or do to your partner. I love you can be either words or deeds. But no matter what kind of communication you choose to let your partner know that you love him or her, it is the sweetest and most romantic thing you can do.
In fact, love comes and goes. But it is still up to us to keep a relationship strong and alive. With the right creative things you can do to your boyfriend or girlfriend, you can add spice to the relationship. There will be no boring moments and you can learn a lot of interesting things.
These romantic bonding moments may even bring you closer to your partner and let you learn a lot about him. So, ladies, get ready now; it’s time to shine and let our boyfriends know that we can be romantic and proud lovers.